In response to a family friend that had known I was gay for a long time, but only now talked to my mom about it.
Yeah, I figured you knew as well. And if you couldn't tell from the Facebook posts, well... I can't help you there. lol. Besides, you're from New York and I thought "If she's really a New Yorkan, she wouldn't have a problem with it."
Oh, faith... I actually recently saw on your wall a picture of what "traditional marriage" looks like. And to be honest, the "definition of marriage" that politicians are so worried gays will change, has indeed changed significantly over the course of the past couple of centuries. People of course don't know this because they don't read history, don't care to, and only live the small, 70-80 years of their life without ever wondering if life was ever different. I consider myself to be a person of strong faith as well, and I really don't see why being religious and being gay have to mutually exclusive. I've asked my mom and she goes "Pues se supone que..." No. Supone is Spanish for assume. And, as they say, when you assume, you make an ass out of u and me. Por eso me choca cada vez que la gente dice "pues se supone que..." dicendo cosas que la otra gente le ha ensenado sin haber aprendido por si mismo.
These are the thoughts I try to get across to my mom. And thoughts I've *tried* to get across to my dad when we were once talking about Russians and communism. No point really in coming out to my dad, he already has enough crap to deal with. Also he's a lost cause.
I've always wanted to tell Fulvia and Ana Ru as well. I know Ana Ru would be cooler with it, but Fulvia's another example of someone who didn't get enough education so she has to live through life using a framework that the Church has taught her.
You know, I'm not planning on getting married, but if it so happens that I do, it would mean the world to me if all you guys, mom, Fulvia, and Ana Ru, could be there and actually accept it. But I know that's too much to ask for. Alas, as they say, life's a bitch and then you die. lol. At least I truly, honestly believe that all these trials really do make me a stronger and better person. I would hate to have been born straight. I probably would've knocked up some chick by now and been working at a Panda Express. But look where I am today. And I know that it's because I want to be the best there is despite other people, no, *precisely* because other people try to bring me down and say I'm less than they are.
I've always wanted to tell Fulvia and Ana Ru as well. I know Ana Ru would be cooler with it, but Fulvia's another example of someone who didn't get enough education so she has to live through life using a framework that the Church has taught her.
You know, I'm not planning on getting married, but if it so happens that I do, it would mean the world to me if all you guys, mom, Fulvia, and Ana Ru, could be there and actually accept it. But I know that's too much to ask for. Alas, as they say, life's a bitch and then you die. lol. At least I truly, honestly believe that all these trials really do make me a stronger and better person. I would hate to have been born straight. I probably would've knocked up some chick by now and been working at a Panda Express. But look where I am today. And I know that it's because I want to be the best there is despite other people, no, *precisely* because other people try to bring me down and say I'm less than they are.
Anyways, those are my thoughts. A lot of gay people have these thoughts, so it's nothing you should be too surprised about lol! I'll see you in December, I'll make the chocolate cheesecake so long as Carol doesn't hold it!
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